My Journey

For a long time, I believed the answer to feeling happier, more confident and more fulfilled was somewhere outside of me. If I could just earn a little more money, be a little prettier, a little more successful, a little more like her. Then, maybe I'd finally feel content. But every time I reached one goal, my mind quietly moved the goalposts. Looking back, I can see I wasn't just comparing myself, I was questioning myself: was I interesting enough, attractive enough, successful enough? I overthought conversations I'd had days before, or imagined ones that hadn't even happened. For years, I mistook constant self-analysis for self-awareness.

Eventually, through my own coaching journey, I realised comparison had never been the real issue. It was just the way my lack of self-acceptance showed itself. When we don't accept ourselves at the deepest level - our personality, our appearance, our decisions, our bodies, our imperfections - we end up creating a life built on rocky foundations. It's incredibly difficult to grow your confidence and live a life you love when you're too busy fighting the person living it, or constantly at war with the person you're trying to become.

Self-acceptance isn't waking up thinking "I'm amazing." It's reaching a place where your own mind no longer feels like the hardest place to live. It isn't the destination, it's the foundation everything else is built on.

This is why I specialise in self-acceptance coaching, to treat however it is presenting in your life: imposter syndrome, lack mentality, low confidence, insecurity, comparison, self deprecation, etc. Because my work isn't about helping you think positively, it is about helping to you stop living a life in opposition with yourself and instead, to start living in harmony with who you've always been. The moment the relationship with self changes, everything else has the opportunity to change with it.

NLP & Timeline Therapy Explained

I am trained in Neurolinguistic Programming (NLP) Timeline Therapy (TLT), which forms part of a separate offering under My Services.
NLP coaching works by helping clients become aware of automatic patterns that influence their decisions, emotions, and behaviours. These patterns often operate below conscious awareness, but they shape everyday experiences, and NLP works by lifting these long held subconscious beliefs.
Time Line Therapy®, is a deeper guided technique that helps clients to unplug at an unconscious level, and surrender negative emotions linked to past experiences and transform their internal programming.

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In 30 minutes, we'll look at what coaching is (and isn't), explore what you might be seeking from coaching, and whether working together feels right.

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